date a boy who will facetime you while you’re crying and cheer you up just with his smile
You’re allowed to be excited about the little things. You’re allowed to be goofy. You’re allowed to be dorky about your favorite tv show, to make blanket forts, to enjoy cheesy movies, even just to sleep with stuffed animals. You’re allowed to do any of the things that make life a little more bearable. It’s fine, ok?
Being a good daddy isn’t an objective thing, unfortunately. Every little is unique and will require different care and support, and varying levels of attention.
Little #1 will request ALL of your attention ALL of the time, with no exceptions. This is the most difficult little to keep up with, but they are also the most loving and caring, and want nothing more than to spend time with their daddies.
Little #2 may require lots of personal space and free time to themselves. This is a more rare occurrence, but it certainly does happen, and it’s very important to respect those boundaries when they set them.
So on, and so forth.
A general rule of thumb is to simply listen to your little. If they want you to do something differently, they may blatantly say it, or in some cases, act in a way that might get you to do that thing. If a little needs more order and you aren’t being strict enough, they may begin to act bratty and do things that will ultimately lead to punishment. There is usually a reason for every behavior.
Another good rule to follow, would be to make sure you’re getting the care you need as well. Some daddies might not enjoy their little constantly being with them, and some daddies might absolutely adore it. Your little is your partner as well, and you should work together to find a balance that can suit you both.
Don’t forget, you are your little’s caregiver, and you can also be their best friend. If your little likes video games, try to play with them. If they enjoy reading, maybe set up a little reward system for reading a whole book in a week.
Being a couple, fights are likely to happen. When these do, depending on the regression age of your little, this could cause them to panic and possibly try to even run from you. If this happens, you need to try and calm them down to the best of your ability. You can make up with them when they’re calmed down, and preferably in a big state of mind. A conflict with a little in little space will usually only end badly for everyone.
Aside from all of those, being a daddy is something you’ll just have to figure out with your little over time. Just like any relationship, it needs to be built on trust, consent, and an understanding of the other’s needs and wants. It’s never okay to be selfish to the extent that you make the other person unhappy or frustrated. Being in a relationship is tough. Being in a relationship with a little is tougher. But I can confidently say that it’s been the most rewarding experience of my life.
-Daddy
i have so many different little moods…
“sweet innocent lil baby” mood
“can’t stop won’t stop being bratty” mood
“bite everything” mood
“independent don’t need daddy” mood
“no wait just kidding come back daddy i need you” mood
and so on 😊
cutest thing ever
this was on tv tonight!! :3
🐣 Who’s daddy’s cute little (nickname)?
🐣 Do you know how much daddy loves you?
🐣 Don’t let go of Daddy’s hand now, okay?
🐣 Can you show me your stuffies?
🐣 Can Daddy see your poem/drawing/coloring?
🐣 Let Daddy hear that pretty voice of yours.
🐣 Do you want Daddy to (order/get it/ask/tell them/other task) for you?
🐣 Little one (or other nickname), it’s okay. You can (be little/cry/act silly/be small/other thing) around me!
🐣 You’re so cute, little (nickname).
🐣 Pinky promises
🐣 Tickle fights
🐣 Building forts
🐣 Forehead kisses
🐣 Kissing/Holding my hand while driving
🐣 Singing/Rapping along with me or to me
🐣 Counting down to get me to do something before I get in trouble
🐣 Being called nicknames in other languages or special nicknames (feels more important)
🐣 Go get (stuffie name/your stuffie/your paci/your binky/your blankie/other little gear)
🐣 How is my little (nickname) today?
🐣 Do you want to tell Daddy about it?
🐣 *any encouragement for me to try a new food or activity can make me feel little as long as it is followed by praise*
🐣 Letting me step on your feet while we dance
🐣 Letting me cling to/hide behind you in public
🐣 Pulling me close to your side to protect me or keep me warm
🐣 Using your arm to make sure I don’t move too far forward when you brake in the car (I just call this the arm seatbelt thingy)
🐣 Surprises
🐣 Anything fluffy and cute
🐣 New stuff from my wishlist
🐣 Doing normal errands with you and ending it with a fun shopping trip or date
🌈 Please add more if you want to!!! I only used “Daddy” because I have a Daddy but use whatever word or name you like!!! 🌈
🐰~ Little Wishlist · Big Wishlist ~🐰
I’ll rock the hell out of a small gold necklace with my boo name on it, faithfully.
